Ritual

We all have wounds, and we all have our own light. Maybe that’s what relationships are all about, just filling the wounds of another with our light.

Once a couple has reached the deepest layers of intimacy, ritual work can be a way to take their relationship to the next level, to one of not only blissful sacred union, but to orgasmic manifestation of spiritual, creative, physical, and financial abundance.

It’s only once couples have done the shadow work and started to heal the most wounded parts of themselves that will I work with them in ritual work. If one or both partners are wounded people that are not rooted in self they can manifest a lot of chaos and pain into their life and relationship if they deny their need to heal themselves first.

The final stage of my coaching process with a couple is to perform a bonding ritual I have created, either for those that are already married and wish to seal their bond on a soul level, or for those that have no desire to marry in the traditional sense, but would like to be soul bonded. This is not a ritual to be entered into lightly, as it a ritual to make a conscious choice in this incarnation to be bonded to another soul for future incarnations as well as this one.

Making Love with the Lights On

When the sun shines through a rainstorm it’s because The Father wants to see The Mother in all her beauty and glory as he makes love to her. So beautiful are those moments when he steals a kiss from her. When his divine light shines down and awakens her love. When his loving caress rains down upon her body causing new life to bloom into existence.

True, emotional intimacy happens in the dark. It reminds us of the cool, dark womb of The Mother where we once felt safe, protected, and nurtured. It is in the dark where we feel the safest to simply be and to open our heart and reveal its most painful layers to a lover. It’s where we rest in each other’s arms and share parts of us we could never share with the rest of the world.

True passion and sexual intimacy happen in the light. It’s when we finally feel worthy to be seen in our full beauty and have nothing to hide from God or our beloved. The light of God shining down on us ignites the fire in our soul causing the one in our heart to burn brighter. This fire makes us want to take action, to give to our lover, ourselves, and to the world.

This is the divine balance of the feminine (The Mother) and the masculine (The Father) both within Self and a Sacred Union. His Sacred Fire is the light that perpetually shines in her darkness, always bringing her back to God and her own divinity. Her dark womb and loving embrace are his safe harbor, giving life and nourishment to his soul. She is a sea of love and nurturing where he can swim in her depths and feel safe enough to brave his own.

True intimacy in a Sacred Union happens when we love both the light and dark within ourselves and each other, the masculine and the feminine. It’s when we feel safe enough to hold each other in darkness and share what’s in the depths of our heart and soul. It’s also when we love ourselves enough to turn on the lights, see each other fully as we are, and allow ourselves to be seen and loved as God created us to be.~

Seven chakras. One heart to rule them all. One heart that, when bonded with the heart of the right soul, opens the door to the deepest levels of our divinity.~